companionship, partnership, relationship

what makes one to be a good partner? cmon guys... having trouble here... give me some low-down, man!

i though i had more or less deciphered the male psyche and i learnt to be:
1) cool -- be level-headed, chill-out mode 80% of the time
2) understanding -- always always put myself in his shoes
3) patient -- if he is late to pick u up, late for a date, wait patiently and do not keep calling to ask "where are you!"... plus other occasions that require patience (and tolerance)
4) empathy -- i do! and extremely reliable and helpful...
5) love -- everything and beyond
6) forgiving -- i am the least petty gal, man!

but if i m guilty for caring by being naggy, and for stating my stand on matters (which is often rebutted) plus give the (VERY) occasional chiding, then i think i still have a long way to go.

i am sad. i am down. i am pissed. but i know i am right.

and to top it all off, Wentworth Miller has to be gay. BUMMER! :(

cream

i have always liked cream buns... the bread with cream in the centre... but here @ my new workplace, i have been eating it, EVERY DAY! the plain ones from Top One, or the traditional coloured one (i am sure everyone has eaten it at least once in pri school before!). YUMMY!

On a separate note, was watching Bones... i love the drama! and i didn't know it's the television version of the books from Kathy Reichs, until i heard "Tempe Brennan"! I lurve her books, and now there's a television show!

Ok, anyway, what i wanted to say is the next episode of the show is going to be better... i wrote on the subject of closure previously, and i think the next episode touches on that. This set of bones were found and after further investigation, Brennan found out that he could not have committed suicide as previously assumed as he had wedding rings on him and a receipt for collection of his wedding shirt! This man had disappeared before his wedding day and his bride was left, alone. Well, of course, she settled down in the end but when the body was identified, and she found out that he did not dump her, she just broke down. Imagine how clueless and heartbroken she must have been! Concluding it, Brennan said: "Can you imagine how she feels? Waiting and wondering what happened?"

It is just sad. thinking abt the possibles. The what-ifs. :(

Watch Bones!

men & pink- gosh!

i haven't logged in for the longest time cos wrk has been quite terrible and hectic.

anyway, lately been seeing men & pink together... men in pink shirts (nice!!), men with pink ties (nice nice!), and otehr variations of the combi which are not too bad on the eyes. But, imagine, a guy with a pink psp?! hmmm... ok... he mite be gay with his NUM bag, but even so! i am glad it is not studded with those pink glittery stuff... GOSH!

But imagine, with more gay men now than ever, and them happily flaunting their stylish bods (or at least most of them are stylish la)... and lugging what used to be, girl's stuff - the pink iPODs, VAIO - we girls have nothing unique to us.

don be mistaken... i am not against men having pink gadgets, neither am i anti-gay.

one thing i wished i could emulate from the fashionable men - pants with sneakers, ala Justin Timberlake. Somehow, it just doesn't look that stylo!