wanting the material, needing the immaterial

who doesnt enjoy being pampered? the kate spade bags, the tod's shoes, the hermes scarf & the ubiquitous LV-anything... all things material makes the outlook all splendid but if you do not have the very important essence in life, all the luxuries are just - BAH!

if your partner is insincere, or just giving you all these ka-ching stuffs to substitute his non-existence, then i think they just end up being just them - inanimate things. fashion items i could easily chuck aside, and just be passe at the next fashion season.

we might be bewildered by some people's life choices, but i know that i do not want my happiness to be just a brand, albeit that Prada bag does look great hanging from my arm...

i want sincerity, i want time, i want my man to be with me... not @ my beck & call, but really, truthfully, want me and be with me.

spare me those items... i do not need them.