is there more than one love?

i've always thot abt this... the idea of having more than one love. cos i believe situations put you different circumstances and chance meetings...and with every situation, it brings you to a different place, a different cause hence a varied effect.
now in sg, i've been fortunate to have loved and been loved and the person that i will be sharing my life with will be my final love.

anyway, how are we to know that he/she is THE ONE? how? when the heart beats faster each time we see his/her face? when all we can think abt is him/her? when time stood still when you are together? yada yada yada.. so how?

am not a fan of hindi movies but i tell you, watever i thot, is nicely done up in the hindi blockbuster kabhi alvida naa kehna (KANK).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9783mBumg04
how 2 people, who are married, but through their failing marriage, found each other and finally really fell in love. ok.. i don't quite condone the affair that happened in between, for it's always a choice. if married, stay married. act married.
but amitabh's character said this (after he found out his daughter-in-law is not in love with his son): "leave him for if you do not (love him), cos you are keeping him from his true love". i agree.
love & marriage are mutually exclusive. without love, marriage is nothing but just a signed agreement. an agreement that can be sent to the shredder. but without marriage, love does not quite reach its climax.
ok anyway, in the end, both parties separated from their spouses of whom had moved on well... and the 2 (Shah Rukh and Rani) ended up together, after the whole drama in between (hindi movies man... wat do you expect?), in the end... because they are meant to be together.
but the ending line is something to ponder on... they wished the love hadn't been paved by broken relationships and hearts.

on the bright side, those devastated by their lost love, must brace up and be positive... if a more loving and lasting remarriage can happen, what are you waiting for? Open up your heart today!

p/s: just be sure it is not a rebound love... take your time. and don't compromise. make love wif your spouse, and not sex. for sex, you can do with just abt anyone!