trust and love... mutually needy
yesterday the boyfriend (yes, we are back together!) and i had another quarrel [yes, yes.. the moment we decided to get married and pledge our lifetimes together, the more cranky we are (blame him la!)]
it's all cos of my (over-)excitement about the long-lost cute MRT guy! the boyfriend accused me of being excited about him (true!) and all turned on cos of him (false!!) and that the reason why i wanted to make out with him is cos of the cute mrt guy... *roll eyes* i am so misunderstood!
and so i told him... if he cannot trust me anymore, then what's the point? then he will suspect every touch, every kiss, every movement from me is cos i have someone else in my mind! then me, the smarty-ass, went on and on and on (yes, with tears included) to prove my point and he caved in... *phew*
but he asked... which is more important: love or trust?
and so, again ms-smarty-pants replied: Love shld come first... with love, you trust that your partner will love u as much (or even more) and will not do anything to hurt you. As love grows, trust should increase too, along with faith and loyalty, and that's how the commitment quotient comes about.
And this brings me back to the Corinthian passage... love is not selfish ... ... ... how true!
anyway, dear boyfriend of mine... this song is for you (and can we not quarrel anymore?!)
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