irksome

you know what? some people are really oblivious to others or they are just shameless.

let me tell you why?

i've got this girlfren, who WAS the most creative, wacky, fun-loving and really really fun to be with... the one who always jumps with delight (literally!) and really excited about things. However, since she got on with this guy, she is no longer any of the above. REALLY! Along came her boyfriend, and POOF! went her charisma. Now she is this docile, clampy, and really boring. As if that is not enough, her boyfriend (now fiance) tags along at every gathering that we have - despite them clearly spelt as ALL-GIRLS-ONLY!

i am happy that she finally found someone who will take care of her and all, but when he is starting to impose himself on us (and it's just his presence ok.. i am not going to the part when he starts to converse and is all cocky k) and takes away the very essence of what's so unique about my girlfren, i doubt he is the best for her.

and it's getting quite sad actually. it's getting quite depressing that each one of us are starting to sulk at every gathering at the sight of them now, and it's worse when our gf is blind to it.

i can't believe i give her the benefit of the doubt before her every arrival, betting with other frens on whether he will come along or not. and i keep losing my bet$. and i am a sore loser.

i want my gf back... the one who is the sweetest, and fun and everything that she used to be. Fond memories. I wasn't even very close to her, and I miss her much. I think the rest must be reeling.